Top 10 Advices About Relationship and Love
Last year, I went to different conferences related to relationship, love, marriage and I never had a change to write something about all the knowledge I acquired. I always say before I get married I have to share them and let the world know that after relationship and love can still remain the same even if nowadays it is hard to find a great relationship base on trust, support, true love and more.
I was reviewing my notes from these conferences and the first thing that catch my attention is: ” The deepest emotion known to humans being is LOVE” and you know who states that? One of the most influential counseling psychologists alive today Carol Dweck. She knows so much about love, everybody in that conference room felt that she went to another level. Everybody wanted to do the right thing in their relationship. Something to remember, there are different kinds of love and human seek its feeling in a romantic relationship with a partner.
However, these advices will make your relationship stronger than ever. I make a compilation of the best advices I get from most the most influential counseling psychologists alive today which are Albert Bandura, Susan Carey and Thalia Eley.
You need to know that real love is a choice, it is not a feeling because usually feelings change, fade and it can be fleeting.
Tell No Lies, Keep No Secrets are the keys to start a long term relationship.
The international publisher Julie Compton from St Louis, describe them better through these two novels below:
You need to be confident. It should be “I will be okay whether she likes me or not” instead of ” I know she likes me”.
You have to be the right person, STOP trying to look for the right person.
Always keep in mind that never fall in love with your Therapist, Waitress or Hooker.
You MUST love yourself first in order to expect someone to love you.
If you don’t know how to do it, you know I got you: Learning to Love Yourself: Finding Your Self-Worth
Remember that, a HAPPY relationship needs two HAPPY individuals to make it happen.
Never go to bed angry because when you wake up in the morning, everything will be there and even worse sometime.
Now, its all about to be polite and educated. Be the first to honestly apologize after a fight even if you right or wrong.
You need to seduce your lover, IMPRESS her/him no matter what. I mean even if you’re in a committed relationship. Because if you don’t, someone else will.